I'm sorry, I have to say this because it's been bothering me. 

Being nice to somebody isn't the same thing as letting him do something that you believe is wrong. And if he does do something you believe is wrong, it doesn't mean you think he's going to hell. 

And I'm really grateful that I have both a mom and a dad. 

Interpret that how you like, I'm not saying anything else and I don't mean to piss anyone off. 

Time for more coffee. Cheerio!